Monday, June 21, 2010

Dining in the sky


fabu pots is in town!!! its so once in a blue moon... kinda excited about meeting up with her... a dinner with my fabu fren should be at a very fabu place only can match her fabu high cras kuan... and so we decided to go to the... tada... EQUINOX complex on the 70th floor of Swissotel for some 'shang deng ren' fine dining!!! HAWTS~~~

Once we reach the restaurant, it was like waw... glam to the max!!! we are so in awwww with the superb ambience of the fabulous EQUINOX!
The marvellous night scenery of singapore is breathtaking when you view it from a high rise building through the most glam 落地窗户with the most glam decor!

then here comes the hawts waitress, if according to pots, is not so 'kua eh ki' us, serving us, providing us the menu...

we opened the menu, and we go wah... soooo pricey expwensive... sakpwise sakpwise... its likka we need to wash plates in the kitchen if we go for 2 courses...

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due to the fact that we are just poor students... we only managed to order one 3 course menu plus an extra appetizer... SHADDENING!!! UH HUH!
appetizer: foie gras, atlantic cod... my first time eating foie gras... nice... me n pots feel that it taste like roasted goose... while the atlantic cod, no no...







main course: pork belly with the fabu WAGYU BEEF! the tenderness of it i will never forget... gawsh... while for the pork belly, i am not sure whether it is, but it taste like one, the 油脂与肉之均匀-ness of it, awwwww... wonderful!
dessert: some choc thingy... nice but its reali fine... as in small... very very small... ZZZ... fine dining


overall, thats really a good place to dine with some very arrrrr n click fwens... that night was just awesome, although its only a very short gathering, its nice! we talked about everything... well... pots is totally known for her ciakap manyak-ness... totary rove! xoxo!

Thursday, June 3, 2010

guilt, the bastard

***before start reading this post, pls do not that i m not saying that we shouldnt ignore the precautions that we always know, or ignore the conscience that we have, i m saying that when all has been done, or due to some wrong decisions, some mistake has been made, the mistake is already there, it cnt be reversed, there's no use of asking why didnt i bla bla bla and let guilt ruin our remaining lives, instead it makes sense if we learn from our mistake and dont repeat the mistake again.



just happen to read a blog, something about the past, something which happens to be a test of one's sincerity in a friendship. Its some 'do it, and u pass the test as someone who is still humane, who considers for others, and more as a bonus, you are a true sincere friend'; 'not doing it, then you should feel guilty about yourself, for not being able to help when a friend is in trouble, you are just one damn bastard who would not step out to the front line to offer your help'

well, i am the latter, and yes, i did felt bad about it, and i am the typical kind who will just easily feel bad about something, and will do something just for the sake of not feeling guilty, and the sense of happiness for helping others is just some extra bonus. Looking back, that should not be the way, isnt it? Shouldn't it be the other way round? Why 'help only when you know you will feel guilty of not helping', but not 'helping because you want to help'?

we, at least me, has been lacking this simplest definition of our way of living, its all been altered, i lived my life carefully so that i can keep a clean record all of my life, without any dirty portion of committing crimes, without any guilt of ruining some unfortunate soul's life and whatever miserable stuffs that one can think of.

Believe me, this mindset will drive you crazy one day, you will be too careful until an extent when you start not believing in yourself that you've done everything right when you've actually did. That might sound ridiculous to some of you guys out there, but yeah... well... hmmm...

This makes me start thinking about what if, one day i did commit some real serious offence, ruining someone's life, which will make the sense of guilt deeply planted in me, how would i live with it? Scrutinizing this hilarious mindset, whats the logic behind this when you are actually more afraid of the guilt more than being afraid of ruining someone's life? And when this really happens, say you have made someone paralyzed for the rest of his/her life or even killed someone in an accident, what we can actually do? One, jump off one of the skycrapers in the city to get yourself forever buried, and hence burying away all the guilt that you couldn't face for the rest of your life; Two, no choice but to face it, either positively or negatively(might probably live in ever terror, fearing the souls of the victims might get some revenge on you, and finally end up committing suicide as a consequences of not being able to cope with this kind of mental torture). So the only way is to continue to live in a positive way, learning the lesson, and see whats installed for us next... some would say, what about the victim, now he/she is dead because of you, he/she is dead and will never be back! you can get a second chance, then who will give the victim a second chance! Thats indeed "THE STATEMENT" which will make guilt stick to one, and slowly but surely pushing one to committing suicide as a result of failing to cope with "THE STATEMENT". But hey, it has happened, there's really no other ways to make the situation better, crying and feeling guilty will not revive the victims, it will only inflict more pain on yourself without making the situation better in any perspective, be it from the victim, victim's family or you yourself.

so, yeah... maybe committing crimes or other serious offences (including those due to carelessness) are not that horrifying actually, maybe after all is just the guilt that we are fearing. If you have really committed an offense or some mistakes, like not helping others in need or something even worse, most importantly make sure that the lesson is learnt, and not wasting your time with 'guilt' the monster meaninglessly...
so, do remember, when the wound is made, its there, its meaningless for you staring it with your teary eyes, saying a million times of 'sorry', you'd rather learn the lesson, and know what you should do when the same situation comes facing you again. And this can only be done when we live our lives without fearing guilt, without letting guilt decide what we should and shouldn't do...

conclusion: if you've committed a mistake/offence, learn the lesson, 尽可能减低对所有人的伤害, and do know how to face it when it recurs, for the sake of not inflicting the pain again on you yourself or others, but not for the sake of avoiding guilt, guilt is just nothing but a bastard which doesn't help in any sense instead of making the situation worst off! So, lets just ignore GUILT, lets live and act according to our conscience!

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

simbolo di successo


PATEK PHILIPPE CALATRAVA 5127G  
          



                                                                                        
one young man without any target for himself in the future, wasting time for nothing in the office (maybe for the 800 bucks), no idea where he is heading to... is it possible for him to possess this? lets see... just enjoy life~~~

come on... lets start our journey of dreams~~~

以后的我会是怎样?

自己很爱幻想,爱把自己幻想自己成为事业有成的,魅力爆棚的熟男,kevin costner, richard gere, chris noth, alec baldwin, 就是我朋友所谓的老uncle la! 他们总是认为我很变态,整天迷这些老人!但是我就是真的很想自己能够像这些角色,事业有成,老的时候,还有那份熟男魅力,吸引别人的目光,那种羡煞旁人的目光。。。然后又象他们那样拥有精彩丰富,但是又不低贱的感情生活。。。哈哈哈哈。。。我就是爱幻想啦!

one of the most important part is to have... (drums rolling) a romantic seaside wedding party under the gorgeous sunset of some wonderful islands (would hope it to be the islands of bora-bora). Pictures do speak more than words... the 3 pictures below could well cap everything which is on my mind about the perfect wedding... i have a successful career, have a wonderful wife, and we have the same dreams for our future, and with this wedding, we are ready to step into the next phase of our life, to build our very own family, living together happily ever after! haha... typical fairytale!





then, what now? what after my dream wedding? hmmm... probably...maybe... having a few kids around... leading some very simple yet happy family life... for the weekdays, waking up early in the morning, to send the kids to school... off to work... in the evenings, back home, doors open, and there will be my sweet charming spouse and kids together with the fragrant of the super nice family dishes (waiting to fill my ever growing tummy =P) welcoming me back home! Then, after dinner, together we enjoy some quality family time watching tv... fooling around together...



 after that, finally, its our own husband and wife
time... me reading the financial times magazine, and she, resting in my arms, maybe reading the latest vogue issue... enjoying our very own intimate time together...







 this are for the boring weekdays, for the weekends, having some leisure time together, a picnic by the beach, or strolling in the park would be nice...
                  


                            










哇~~~想了就停不下来了woh! 还能更好吗?hmmm... 想想看~~~有朝一日,我驾着benz, 载着心爱的人游车河,或者更夸张些,驾着小型飞机载她飞上云端看日落,woohoo!!! 或者简单些,与她手牵手在我们的skyhome楼下的海滩(槟城的一栋豪华公寓)沙滩漫步(ps: 手戴着这一支手表), 看自己最爱的日落。。。wahhhhhhhh~~~除了哇还是哇~~~因为现在的我也只有哇的分!


hehe... from everthing i have wrote here, for those who don't know me, will think that its coming out from some very "girlie" girl...  who lives in a world of imagination! Well... i think even guys do dream about this more romantic stuffs... like me... its only me to be brave enough to write it out... not bad what... its rather fun to live in fantasy... its some kind of motivation, something to remind you that you are living on because you are still pursuing your dreams and fantasy!

哈哈。。。我在想,这所有的东西只有奢望的份儿吧。。。因为现在的我并没有看到以后自己大富大贵的可能。。。但是,人是要有梦想,生活才会有意义,无论我有没有达到我的梦想,我有没有大富大贵,我有没有幸福快乐,我至少梦过,我生活是为了追梦,是为了实现梦想,而不是为了活着而活着。。。